As two mothers who each lost our young, healthy daughters too soon to meningitis B, we know full well the consequences of this now vaccine-preventable disease. Kim (Coffey), a high school senior, died one week before her graduation. Emily (Stillman), a college sophomore, died just 36 hours after her first symptoms.
Kim’s story as told by her mother, Patti Wukovits
Kim was so vibrant and healthy, and at 17, was looking forward to starting college to become a pediatric nurse. She came home from school one afternoon complaining of body aches and a fever of 101. The pediatrician’s recommendation was to come to the office the following morning if her flu-like symptoms didn’t improve. However, the next morning, it was clear that this was much more serious. Less than 24 hours after coming home with a fever, she complained that her entire body hurt her from her “eyelashes down to her toes.” Shortly after, she complained of intense pain in her back, where a dark purple rash had spread within a matter of minutes.
She was rushed to the Emergency Room. Within hours of Kim’s first symptoms, her heart and kidneys were failing. The purple rash had now spread all over her body, and she was rapidly losing blood flow to her extremities. After a final nuclear scan confirmed that she had no brain activity, Kim was declared brain dead. I had to make the most difficult decision of my life to remove my beautiful daughter from life support. Kimberly Coffey was buried three days before her high school graduation in the prom dress she didn’t get to wear.
Emily’s story as told by her mother, Alicia Stillman
From the very beginning, Emily always wanted to be on stage. Emily had a strong charismatic presence. She made people laugh and feel good about themselves. Her sense of humor, her improvisations, and her impersonations became famous among all who knew her. On January 31, 2013 she called home from her dorm room at Kalamazoo College complaining of a headache. I thought she could be coming down with the flu. Emily thought it was from lack of sleep after a late night studying. Several hours later, she complained to her suitemates that her headache was worse, and she felt she should go to the hospital. Emily walked into the hospital with her backpack, her computer, her iPad and her homework. She had no idea how sick she was. Later that night and into the next morning, as her symptoms progressed, they began to suspect meningitis.
I arrived at the hospital to find my unconscious daughter being prepared for a craniotomy to give her swollen brain room to expand. In spite of the hopes and prayers of her family, the swelling never decreased. Emily was brain dead. The morning of February 2, 2013, just after 36 hours in the hospital, Emily passed away.
We thought our daughters were protected.
In both of our cases, when the doctors told us our daughters had meningitis, we thought – “that can’t be. Our daughters were vaccinated against meningitis.” What we didn’t know, and what so many children and parents still don’t know today, is that there are two types of meningitis vaccines needed to be fully vaccinated against meningococcal disease—MenACWY and MenB.
The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) recommends that kids ages 11-12 receive the MenACWY vaccine, followed by a booster at 16. In the case of the MenB vaccine, the CDC recommends that 16-23-year-olds receive the vaccine, preferably between ages 16-18.
In the case of Kim and Emily, while both had received the MenACWY vaccine, the MenB vaccine was not yet available to help protect them from MenB.
It is today, yet four out of five 17-year-olds haven’t even received the first dose of Meningitis B vaccination.
That is why we have come together to launch the Meningitis B Action Project, a joint initiative of our individual foundations. Our goal is to ensure parents and young adults have the information to proactively talk to their health care provider about Meningitis B and the vaccine available to help prevent it. We also want to encourage the medical community and high school, college, and university administrators to inform their patients and students about the MenB vaccine.
Please help us ensure that no other young, promising life is unnecessarily lost to Meningitis B.
For free educational resources for parents, students and health care practitioners, and to get involved, visit meningitisbactionproject.org or contact us at firstname.lastname@example.org